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I want to be more independent for my New Years resolution, because it’s hard for me to say no to someone or hard to be myself around other people. And it helps me find the real me and who I want to be instead of following what others do. This word connects to my life by helping me understand that, people can’t take control over you if you don’t let them. And it teaches my not to be as gullible and I become more bold and straight forward. This word means everything to me, it will help me get through in life and help me to find out what 8 want to be when I grow up. My first step to live this word is, whenever someone asks me to do something I don’t wanna do I’m gonna say no and that’s it, no excuses just no. Because if I continue letting people control me I won’t be able to do anything by myself. I’ll hold myself accountable by taking time to explore who I am and to take full control over myself overtime. This word connect to multiple areas of my life, one, because, you know how everyone likes rap? I like just not certain songs I’m more into pop than rap but to be honest, I would only listen to rap because other people did but now I just don’t care. Two, being myself, and to be a leader not following after anyone else’s tracks. Three, like I said saying no to something I don’t want to do and they can’t do anything about it if I say no because no means no. My New Year independent will help me improve and shape my life how I want it to be, not how anyone else thinks or believes my life should end up

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